Get Your Justice Live» Get Your Justice Live: Community Activism through online broadcasting, training, and resources http://www.getyourjusticelive.com The Number One Talk Show About Reforming Our Judiciary and making sure our Government is more Accountable. Every Wednesday and Sunday Night Live at 8PM EST. Promoting the Best Interests of Family! Tip Line: 517-325-3789 Tue, 20 Jul 2010 23:00:40 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 2006-2007 laryholland@sbcglobal.net (Get Your Justice Live) laryholland@sbcglobal.net (Get Your Justice Live) posts http://blog.getyourjusticelive.com/wp-content/plugins/podpress/images/powered_by_podpress.jpg Get Your Justice Live» Get Your Justice Live: Community Activism through online broadcasting, training, and resources http://www.getyourjusticelive.com 144 144 Just another WordPress weblog Get Your Justice Live Get Your Justice Live laryholland@sbcglobal.net no no The Smart Divorce: Deborah Moskovitch Discusses Smarter Way to Divorce http://www.getyourjusticelive.com/2009/10/14/the-smart-divorce-deborah-moskovitch-discusses-smarter-way-to-divorce/ http://www.getyourjusticelive.com/2009/10/14/the-smart-divorce-deborah-moskovitch-discusses-smarter-way-to-divorce/#comments Thu, 15 Oct 2009 04:00:33 +0000 Lary Holland http://spotlight.getyourjusticelive.com/?p=421 Author of The Smart Divorce: Deborah MoskovitchDeborah Moskovitch, author of The Smart Divorce, joined host Lary Holland on Get Your Justice Live to discuss why you don’t want to have a “Stupid Divorce.” I couldn’t help but laugh about this, since so many people are going into divorce without understanding the journey and the effects that it will have on future finances and more importantly on children. When you are involved, it certainly isn’t that funny.

Just what exactly does S.M.A.R.T. stand for? It is real simple how it has been laid out. State your goals and objectives at the beginning. Make sure these are realistic. Maximize your information and knowledge base. Avoid reacting to your emotions. Retain the best possible divorce team your budget allows. Treat your divorce as a business transaction.

Not everyone will agree with every aspect of any program, but a key point that I saw was know your objectives at the forefront. Popular culture has raised us to believe that we have to hire the most aggressive attorney possible while trying to dominate the adversarial process against a soon-to-be ex-spouse. Times are finally starting to change with viable alternatives coming forward to help families separate with less conflict and more emphasis on their children. Deborah Moskovitch talks about many of alternatives to the adversarial divorce on Get Your Justice Live.

Deborah Moskovitch is the creator and facilitator of “The Smart Divorce consulting service, and author of the upcoming book, The Smart Divorce.

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The Smart Divorce: Proven Strategies and Valuable Advice from 100 top Divorce Lawyers, Financial Advisers, Counselors, and Other Experts (Paperback) is described at Amazon’s website as “Practical, savvy, and wide-ranging, this resource shows men and women how to avoid the pitfalls that turn a straightforward divorce into a nightmare. Drawing on her own personal experience, the author also brings together the best advice from a wide range of experts that include divorce attorneys, mental-health professionals, and financial gurus. This guide coaches separating couples how to build a shortlist of the best divorce attorneys in their area, how to conduct an interview to find the right one, and what the full range of legal options are for each case. Further tips explain how to manage the paperwork, ways to lower legal costs, and practical advice for getting back to “normal” once the divorce is finalized. This reassuring manual also explains the stages of divorce grief and how to separate the emotional divorce from the legal divorce.”

Just my personal opinion, but for less than $15.00 at Amazon.Com’s website, seems like a small price to pay just to see what the experts have to say. Enjoy.

]]> http://www.getyourjusticelive.com/2009/10/14/the-smart-divorce-deborah-moskovitch-discusses-smarter-way-to-divorce/feed/ 0 1:04:14 Deborah Moskovitch, author of The Smart Divorce, joined host Lary Holland on Get Your Justice Live to discuss why you don't want to have a ... Deborah Moskovitch, author of The Smart Divorce, joined host Lary Holland on Get Your Justice Live to discuss why you don't want to have a "Stupid Divorce." I couldn't help but laugh about this, since so many people are going into divorce without understanding the journey and the effects that it will have on future finances and more importantly on children. When you are involved, it certainly isn't that funny. Just what exactly does S.M.A.R.T. stand for? It is real simple how it has been laid out. State your goals and objectives at the beginning. Make sure these are realistic. Maximize your information and knowledge base. Avoid reacting to your emotions. Retain the best possible divorce team your budget allows. Treat your divorce as a business transaction. Not everyone will agree with every aspect of any program, but a key point that I saw was know your objectives at the forefront. Popular culture has raised us to believe that we have to hire the most aggressive attorney possible while trying to dominate the adversarial process against a soon-to-be ex-spouse. Times are finally starting to change with viable alternatives coming forward to help families separate with less conflict and more emphasis on their children. Deborah Moskovitch talks about many of alternatives to the adversarial divorce on Get Your Justice Live. Deborah Moskovitch is the creator and facilitator of "The Smart Divorce consulting service, and author of the upcoming book, The Smart Divorce. [amazonshowcase_745fa11819af8fe43c449c7226e02cde] The Smart Divorce: Proven Strategies and Valuable Advice from 100 top Divorce Lawyers, Financial Advisers, Counselors, and Other Experts (Paperback) is described at Amazon's website as "Practical, savvy, and wide-ranging, this resource shows men and women how to avoid the pitfalls that turn a straightforward divorce into a nightmare. Drawing on her own personal experience, the author also brings together the best advice from a wide range of experts that include divorce attorneys, mental-health professionals, and financial gurus. This guide coaches separating couples how to build a shortlist of the best divorce attorneys in their area, how to conduct an interview to find the right one, and what the full range of legal options are for each case. Further tips explain how to manage the paperwork, ways to lower legal costs, and practical advice for getting back to "normal" once the divorce is finalized. This reassuring manual also explains the stages of divorce grief and how to separate the emotional divorce from the legal divorce." Just my personal opinion, but for less than $15.00 at Amazon.Com's website, seems like a small price to pay just to see what the experts have to say. Enjoy. Alternative Dispute Resolution, Programs and Resources laryholland@sbcglobal.net no no